Historical Derivation of MentoringMentoring (the verb form of mentor) has its etymological roots in The Odyssey, Homer's epic poem. The poem's hero (Odysseus) was a great warrior who left his son (Telemachus) in the care of a trusted friend (Mentor) while he was fighting the Trojan War. Mentor fulfilled his role admirable as he served Telemachus as both loyal guardian and wise adviser. As the story unfolded, Mentor led Telemachus on the heroic journey to find his lost father during which Telemachus matured and developed his own identity.
"I look for enthusiasm, learning, curiosity, willingness to express ideas or ask questions, initiative, pursuing ideas beyond just what is expected or standard, oriented toward achievement or excellence, sense of self-esteem." "Mentoring relationships just don't seem to work with students who display unresponsiveness, arrogance, lack of self-expression, concerns about 'what good is it?' without one's own effort, laziness, non-chalance, showing up drunk, yes, it happened, unwillingness to accept challenge or responsibility. But the biggy is lying or being unethical, untruthful." John Hazer:
"I guess I avoid the opposite of the traits that I listed above: i.e., not interested in our relationship or in I/O psychology, very introverted, or not a very nice person." "Positive mentoring relationships can result in growth in professional identity and in self esteem." John Kremer: "What do I try to avoid? Obviously, signs of lack of interest, too much complaining, things always not right, hanging around too much, not sensing when I am too busy." John McGrew:
"I avoid mentoring relationships with students who treat it as an expectation, as their right, instead of mutual respect for the process and each other." "I think students feel listened to, feel connected to a faculty member, feel cared about, sometimes get good information they need to have as a result of a good mentoring experience." Jane Williams:
"It's hard to work with students who can't or don't take initiative to do work on their own. It's nice to have students who anticipate and head off problems before they start, rather than waiting for direction from the faculty member. " "I had a student I was mentoring in the SPUR program who took it upon herself to find a research site, sent out query letters, followed up with contacts, and came up with a great site to implement her research idea. " |